Friday, February 22, 2013

The Beginning


            Starting and keeping this blog has proven to be more difficult than I had originally anticipated.  Between my classes, exploring the city, commuting ~2 hours every day, traveling, and the other activities I’ve gotten involved in (more about all that stuff later), I’ve been pretty busy so far here in Denmark.  But now I am firmly committed to writing blog posts on a semi-regular basis.  My experience so far has actually been quite interesting – I’ve learned a lot about the Danes and Danish culture, and I’ve gotten to travel a bit and see come cool new places.  I will attempt to share some of my new knowledge and experiences with all of you interested readers out there (like all 3 of you haha).

            My adventure began a while ago – it’s been almost 6 weeks – but for the sake of thoroughness, I will begin at the proper place to commence a story, at the beginning.  Right before I left for Denmark, on January 12th, 2013, my life was pretty hectic.  I had just gotten back from Princeton – I was there for the first few days of reading period – and after taking my driver’s license exam on Friday (I passed!), visiting relatives at the last minute, and packing, by Saturday I was exhausted but fully packed up and ready to go.  A few hours before my flight, lying at home next to my cat Noodle, a sudden wave of sadness hit me and abruptly deflated my giddy mood.  Damn, I thought, I’m really gonna miss home and the people I love here.  But there was little time to dwell on this premature homesickness – the clock struck 2pm and we were off to the airport! 

            After some heartfelt goodbyes, many warnings to stay safe and that I “don’t need any diseases” (“birigi siba Fredichka!”), and some tears from my mom, I went through security check and I was finally rid of them (kidding, Mom, I’m totally kidding).  But I did indeed feel an overwhelming sense of freedom and adventure now that I was actually on my way to Europe.  At JFK I met a bunch of kids who were going to study at DIS just like me – including Allison, with whom I went to Prague last weekend, and Huey, with whom I’m traveling next week, and Kiki, who still hangs out with me despite me violently coughing all over her during the flight – she was sitting next to me and I was suffering from a really bad cold.  Everyone I met seemed ecstatic to finally be going to Denmark and they were all pretty friendly.  We boarded the plane, and after a few hours of disturbed, nyquil-induced sleep, we had arrived in Keflavik airport in Iceland.  And what a beautiful airport it was!  During my 6 hour layover, I slept a bit, walked around the airport, talked to a fellow named DISer Molly, studied a bit – I had to take my final exams for the fall semester about a week later due to my school’s fucked up schedule - and I tried a traditional Icelandic beer called Viking, which was damn good.

Keflavik Airport

Enjoying Viking Beer at the airport
           On the plane from Iceland to Copenhagen, I immediately noticed that everyone appeared blonde and beautiful.  Seriously, they all looked like they had robust, Aryan blood flowing through their veins.  The plane I was on was named after an Icelandic volcano, but nevertheless it got us safely to Denmark without exploding.  As a quick side note, I should warn you about my tone.  Since this is my blog, I will be writing quite freely, and I have been told that I have a strange sense of humor – childish yet often perverse – so if you wish, feel free to just disregard my attempts at humor and move on.  But I digress.  I watched an episode of an Icelandic tv show and before I knew it we were there. 

           I walked out of Copenhagen airport after retrieving my luggage and immediately saw a big sign with my name on it.  I felt like a hotshot, having someone greet me at the airport with a sign, except the sign was written on cardboard in permanent marker, and the people who greeted me formed an odd couple.  Holding the sign was Jan, my lovely host here in Denmark.  The first thing I did when I met him was to say hi, nice to meet you, and then ask him if his name is pronounced “Jan” (how it looks) or “Jen.”  He told me that it was actually pronounced “Yen” – I was completely off the mark!  Needless to say, I felt like a real American idiot, but Jan was understanding and since then we’ve had many great experiences.  The other individual who was there to greet me was a gangly looking kid named Jordan, who is my housemate here.  He came off as reserved that first night I met him, but since then we’ve gotten to know each other quite well and he has often surprised me with his crude sense of humor and flippant remarks.  I must admit, when I first was in an email from DIS that my housemate’s name was Jordan, I imagined and whole-heartedly hoped that he would be a sturdy African American basketball player named after the great one, Michael Jordan.  Instead, he was a nerdy white kid (if you’re reading this, I still love ya bud!)  Nevertheless, we have become good friends and it’s been great fun living with another student.
Jan with his granddaughter

The one, the only, Mr. Jordan Kurbs!
            












            





            After Jan drove us back to his home, we had burgers for dinner – I know, a real Danish first meal – and I unpacked my bags.  I was feeling completely normal up until then, but all of a sudden, it hit me – holy shit, I’m in Denmark!  For four months!  This vague conception of going “abroad” had finally become a reality, and to be honest it felt kind of strange.  I didn’t have too much time to ruminate on the implications though – I lay down in bed and was out like a rock the minute my head hit the pillow, and the next week was jam-packed with welcome and orientation activities.  We had a housing orientation, a tour of the DIS buildings, and an “amazing race” that took us around the major attractions of Copenhagen on an incredibly brisk, windy day.  I met a lot of people that week and saw a lot of places.  In reality, the whole week kind of passed by in a blur.  After that week though, I was starting to get accustomed to being here, fighting the bitter cold but still enjoying life.  Classes begun the next week and I also had to take all of my fall final exams, so it was a hectic period.  After my exams, I felt a lot better and freer.  In general, since arriving here I’ve been having a blast, and I look forward to writing about what’s happened in the past 5 weeks.  Right now, though, I’m downstairs and it’s cold, so I’m gonna go upstairs, where a fire is blazing in the fireplace, to drink some tea and hang out with the host family.
Goofing off during the Amazing Race

Vi ses i weekenden,

Fred
            

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Why Denmark?


Welcome to my travel blog.  This is the first post ever, which is pretty exciting!  Just over three weeks ago, I arrived in Copenhagen, Denmark, for my semester abroad.  I’ve always loved to travel and experience new cultures, and in college I decided that studying abroad was something I really wanted to do and that I would really benefit from it.  So last summer I did some planning, looked at different programs, considered the options, and decided that my best bet would be to study abroad my sophomore spring at DIS, the Danish Institute for Study Abroad.  A few months later, and amazingly enough I am here, living and studying in the great nation of Denmark.

Two quintessentially Danish things - a bike and a canal.

I decided to start this blog both to keep my friends and family back home updated about what I am up to and to share my experiences with others, as well as for a more selfish reason; so that after my semester was over, I would have a digital record of what I did and thought during my time here.  Human memory can be so spotty, but as many people have had to learn the hard way, the internet never forgets.  So let’s hope I don’t fuck up and post something too embarrassing or incriminating that will screw me over in a few years when I’m trying to get a job.  Anyway, thanks for reading, and I hope you enjoy.

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When telling people I was going to study abroad in Denmark, the most common response I got, after “That’s awesome!” was “Why Denmark?”  At first glance, I will grant that it does seem like an incredibly random place.  After all, what could a tiny nation of 5 million people have to offer to an outsider?  The answer, it turns out (at least in my opinion), is a lot!  First off, there’s the city of Copenhagen, where I live and attend class.  I had been to Copenhagen for one or two days a few years ago on a family vacation, and while I don’t remember much, I do remember it being awesome – especially the bike culture – and I mentally marked it as one of the places to come back to when I had more time.  Furthermore, Copenhagen is consistently rated one of the best cities in the world to live in, with the highest quality of life (for example here - http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/denmark/2098269/Copenhagen-named-worlds-best-city-for-quality-of-life-by-Monocle-magazine.html).

Secondly, Denmark is objectively one of the happiest countries in the world and has consistently been near the top of quality of life, happiness, and well-being rankings for years.  (for example, http://www.forbes.com/sites/christopherhelman/2013/01/09/the-worlds-happiest-and-saddest-countries-2/).
I’m studying psychology, and I have been interested in positive psychology for a while, so I was really curious to find out just exactly why the Danes are so damn happy.  It certainly isn’t the weather (more about that later though).  I knew it had something to do with the wealth of the nation and the security provided by the social welfare state, but I wanted to investigate this issue further, firsthand.  And one of the classes I’m taking here is positive psychology, which is basically the study of well-being and what makes people’s lives worth living, a class which could not be taking place in a more relevant setting.

Which gets me to the program I’m a part of, DIS.  When looking at the classes offered at different study abroad sites, the selection at DIS had by far the most interesting classes and the largest variety of classes.  And DIS places an emphasis on learning through travel, which I think is a great idea – I’ll never turn down the chance to see somewhere new.  I’m traveling to Scotland and to Western Denmark with one of my classes, and many of the classes also include “field studies” to different places and cultural sites around the city.  It’s like we’re in elementary school again, going on field trips!  I always thought that high school would have been better if we had had more trips.  A lot of these field studies actually seem pretty informative though.  In addition to that, we have 2 weeks of break throughout the semester during which we can travel on our own (which I will most definitely be doing).  DIS is also pretty good about housing options.  I wanted to live with a host family, and they were able to place me in one.  Finally, the other main place I was considering was Spain, but since I spent a lot of time in Spain last summer, I figured I’d go somewhere else this semester and learn about a completely foreign culture.

A typical city square in Copenhagen

In summary, I had a lot of reasons for going to Denmark, and so far I’m 100% satisfied with the decision.  It’s an awesome country that I feel privileged to live in, and I’m enjoying learning more and more about the culture and the language and the people of Denmark every single day.  I hope you will follow along with my Danish adventure.  It’s gonna be a blast!

A city worker who brought his dog to work for some reason.
This is one of my favorite pictures I've taken here so far although I can't explain why.